Building Bonds

Babies want to be close to their parents and carers; it helps them to feel safe. They cry less when held and rocked and soothed, and will usually fall asleep in their carer’s arms. In-arms carrying can be tiring, so using a sling or carrier can make life much easier. Using a carrier bring many therapeutic benefits to babies and carers from all walks of life. Babies with disabilities or sick children may benefit enormously from being held close in a carrier. It can also be very useful for those at risk of or suffering with mood disorders. Post natal depression and anxiety is very common, even though many families feel unable to tell others how they feel.

What is the Building Bonds Scheme?

  • If you (or your partner or someone you know) are suffering from postnatal depression,
  • or have a child with a serious or life-limiting illness or disability
  • or a child who is spending a lot of time in hospital,
  • or are in receipt of intensive social care support

..our Building Bonds Scheme may be able to help.  Your HCP/social care worker can refer you to us to access the service.

If you are in receipt of Healthy Start vouchers, we can offer you discounted rates of hire.

There are two ways to access the scheme.

Your health care or social services or other care professional can refer you to our service to see if a correctly fitted carrier can be of some help. If you already have a carrier, we will help you learn how to use it safely and confidently; we will not judge you or your carrier.

The referral forms are here.

You can refer yourself or a family member to Building Bonds, please bring your currently valid healthy start vouchers to a library drop in.

What will happen once I am referred?

If you have been referred by your HCP/social care worker, one of the team will get in touch via your chosen method to invite you to attend one of our weekly drop in sessions free of charge, or arrange to visit you and your child in hospital.

If you find large groups or drop in sessions intimidating, we can make sure to invite you to a less busy session or we can arrange for you to visit us at a quieter time.  We can on occasion offer home visits for especially difficult circumstances, but please note this may incur a charge.

What happens to the carrier I am loaned?

You can use it for as long as you find it helpful, we will review the situation in one month and then every three months. When you no longer need it, please return it to us so we can help another family. If you find the carrier doesn’t meet your needs any more (eg your baby has grown out of of the stretchy wrap), do let us know. We may be able to find you an alternative or show you how to use your carrier in a different way.

I can’t afford to pay the normal library hire prices, can you help me?

Yes, if you are also in financial hardship (in receipt of Healthy Start vouchers) we will do our best to provide you with discounted carrier hire (£10/month). If you feel you need more support than this, please ask your HCP/social care worker to refer you via the forms above.

How can I contribute to the Scheme?

Do you have any old but still-in-good-condition baby or toddler carriers that you can donate for the scheme? Email us and let us know!

You are also welcome to contribute directly towards providing carriers to families in need. Email us and let us know!

Read about how carrying can help with mental health disorders and aid with bonding here.

What is Postnatal Depression?                   Help for Postnatal Depression

Mental health matters; there are many avenues of support for those suffering with mental health disorders. Please go and see your GP, your midwife, your health visitor, your local PND charity (here in Sheffield it is Light Sheffield); don’t suffer alone.

Babywearing is not a panacea or cure-all;  but it can be one resource in a toolbox for survival. For many, it can simply be a practical solution for getting around and out of the house and able to do things; for others, the act of carrying can be calming and uplifting. There is a hormonal basis to how close contact can help with mood disorders (oxytocin and dopamine), For many, the use of a sling (when the last thing you want to do is hold a baby) can trigger these biological cascades and bring some relief. Arms can get tired holding babies who will only stop crying when cuddled; a sling can make this easier.

It is important to recognise that for some, close contact is not helpful; please do seek further support.

Carrying helps in difficult circumstances too..